It has been awhile, hasn’t it? I have been uber busy! My husband and son flew here from Italy for Christmas, it was nice seeing them again, we had a wonderful time! I’ve been busy taking care of V as well. He is in more and more pain and it breaks my heart in pieces. I wish there was some way I could take the pain away, but I know I can’t. I just try to make him smile, I rub his hurty spots and just give him all the love and support I can. He is facing spine surgery and of course I am worried about that. He is in bad health and I just don’t know how this surgery will go, he is a slow healer and I am certain it will be painful for him. Ultimately I hope it relieves a bit of his back pain, we shall see. Regardless of the outcome, D and I will be here to take care of him and love him. People have been donating to V through his donate button and it lights up his life when it happens. It shows him that people *do* care about him. Thank you to everyone who has helped him so far!!! He sure does deserve it.
Happy New Year to everyone, I truly hope all your dreams come true this year. Time to go spend some more time with V before he has to go for his CT-Scan this afternoon. Have a great day!
P.S.
I was just reading Jonathan’s blog and was appalled by this entry READ IT HERE. How very sad and outraged I feel. When will the world realize that we homosexuals are *not* a threat to any of you. For the love of God, stop the violence.
Tags: 2009, bi-sexual, family, friendship, gay bashing, homophobia, homosexual, hope, lesbian, links, love, new year, transgendered, v, worry
January 4, 2009 at 8:15 AM
Hey you. Thought I’d let you know that I can now be found here http://tangledhierarchy.wordpress.com/ All my old posts are intact, just a different address.
I will never understand any form of hatred if I’m honest. This case though sent a shudder down my spine. To think this poor man staggered away with a huge knife embedded in him, it doesn’t bear thinking about does it?
Happy New Year. My thoughts are with your friend V. I hope he feels better soon xxx
January 8, 2009 at 10:20 PM
I will blogroll you at your new URL!
V is having a very hard time right now. But things will get better, it has to!
January 10, 2009 at 1:27 PM
I want you to know that you’re in my thoughts
January 20, 2009 at 4:51 PM
And *you* are in mine, Jonathan!